Restraints

Let's be honest here. No one enjoys vanilla sex all the time. No matter what anyone says, doing the same old vanilla sex does tend to get very boring after a point. We all need spice in our lives. And for spice, nothing is as effective as a few drops of BDSM in our daily sex life. It need not be anything depraving or hurtful as most pornographic videos portray but instead can be simple tasteful acts of submission and dominance in a rather romantic manner.

But how do you initiate this? How can you enter into this rather mysterious world of bondage? We have the answer.

Bondage need not always be painful. It could start with the simple act of submitting to your partner. And one of the best ways to test the waters would be to try out restraints. These simple toys will not only introduce you to BDSM but can also help you get closer to your partner.

What are sexual restraints?

Restraints or sexual restraints are basically equipment that restricts the movement of one of the partners. It goes unsaid that everything happens here with the consent of all parties concerned. These restraints could be ropes and chains tied to keep hands and legs together or they could be tethered to a structure as in the case of bed restraints. The main purpose is to let the restrained one give away command over their movements and enjoy this submission.

What are some Dos and Don'ts of playing with restraints?

Most of us might be unfamiliar with the whole concept of BDSM. Hence it's only fair that we keep ourselves informed on the rules of sexual restraints. This not only makes the whole session enjoyable but also ensures the safety of the people involved.

Dos:

•      Always make sure you've consented to whatever you're doing. Use safe words or actions to keep you/your partner in check.
•      Try leashes or the restraints on yourself in non-sexual scenarios to know how tight the grip needs to be to restrict movement without hurting the other person.
•      Communicate properly about your intentions and desires before the act.

Don’ts:

•      Do not push anyone beyond their limits. It can lead to very awkward moments.
•      Do not hurry up to reach a point. Sexual restraints are all about the journey hence enjoy the moment instead of trying to reach somewhere.
•      Do not ignore aftercare. When you’re putting on hard restraints, such as sexual bed restraints or leather ties, it often leaves a mark on the skin, causing distress. Make sure you both take care of that and the Dom showers enough love and care to the sub.

These help in a good experience and will certainly enrich your sex life. So check out our massive collection of sexual restraints and order one for yourself right away!